Please Be More Serious Chapter 57-58
Apologies to those waiting with bated breath for these chapters...
Chapter 57 Unsuited
‘I had heard of you, you know. Long
ago, even before old Qin asked you to join his company. Another friend
mentioned you while we were drinking tea together, your name sounded like
“please be more serious”, I was very impressed with your name. He said you were
very capable and very special. When Lao Qin told me when he was going to invite
you to his company, when he mentioned your name, I realised you were the same
person.’
As Zhengqing listened to Guohao, he
could not suppress his anxiety. For Guohao not to be direct, but to start
talking about the past; it was not a good sign.
Zhengqing did not stop him as he
spoke, but used the time to try and calm himself. He more he listened, the more
he could understand what Yin Guohao wanted, and therefore, come up with
countermeasures.
‘Lao Qin tackled the bull’s horns
to lure you to his side, and your performance was beyond expectations. He
praised you a lot. After sometime, he told me you had become a deputy general
manager at in the head quarters.’
Guohao took a sip of his tea and
looked at Zhengqing, who appeared to be calmly listening attentively.
‘You’re the best man to Lao Qin,
and he even wanted to make you his successor if you had gotten along with Yu
Fei,’ he said. There was short pause, ‘Unlike us, Lao Qin was lucky, he’d found
the person who he wanted to pa.s.s on his legacy to. He was luckier than me.’
Zhengqing thought of the families
of Qin and Yin, Qin still had his wife but Yin lost his wife. Wen Yi was
luckier than Guohao in this aspect.
‘After my wife died, I wanted to
let go of everything. Life did not bring, death did not take, so what was the
point? Maybe my business got bigger and succeeded, but without my love beside
me what was the point? So I sold my businesses, and now I am very happy.’
Although, Zhengqing knew not to
speak but he could not help trying to change Guohao’s point of view, ‘But if
you hadn’t worked hard at that time, would there have been a business to sell?
If you had nothing, and no financial resourses, would you be relaxed and happy
now?’
Guohao was stunned at Zhengqing’s
words.
Zhengqing sighed at him own
impulsiveness, but since the words were out there he might as well say his
piece, ‘Uncle, it is a sad thing that Aunt left this world early. My parents
also left early, so I can understand. However, you can’t just look at things
from one side only. Many people are carefree, no need to work, but they get
serious illness. Many people work hard, run about for their three meals, but
they live till the age of a hundred. Please do not blame yourself for Yin
Ting’s mother’s illness anymore.’
Guohao did not expect Zhengqing to
say dare say these things. He looked and Zhengqing, and suddenly barked out in
laughter, ‘Xiaoting would has said the same thing to me. She showed me, someone
who did not have a hard life but still died of cancer, but someone who smoked
and drank all their life lived till a ripe old age of ninety-eight. She told me
not to feel guilty about her mother’s death. Though, you have given examples,
they examples you give are the extremes.’
Zhengqing was taken aback at that
moment,
‘Indeed, there are people who are
sick and some of them have no wealth but live long lives, but aren’t these
people few and far between? The vast majority of people, who live unhealthy
lives, suffer for it. Getting into traffic accidents because they chose to
cross the road at the wrong time, because of greed; they cheat and get cheated.
These are not the extremes; these are the majority of the populations.’
Zhengqing could not refute. (Zuben:
Can I take your place, man? I can refute)
‘But you are right, if my wife and
I, in our youth, did not create a good foundation; I would have had no business
to sell. No financial resources to live easily.’ Guohao said quietly, he sighed
and continued, ‘But I would rather not even have the businesses, I would have
preferred the both of us being ordinary 9-5 workers, would rather have no money
to cook, would rather…just so she could still be with me.’
Zhengqing remained quiet.
Guohao sipped his tea, and visibly
collected himself, ‘Xiaoting looks like her mother, even laughs like her. When
her mother died, she took it very hard. She took on the responsibility of looking
after her father and taking care of her brother. She was a sensible child who
did not complain, and thought hard about doing well for others. She was
thoughtful and considerate. When her mother pa.s.sed, she suddenly grew up…’ He
said with a sad smile, ‘I have nothing to worry about except for my daughter.’
‘Although, that isn’t fair to Ah
Shi, but he is a boy and his nerves are stronger than Xiaoting. Although,
Xiaoting seems strong and carefree, she is a sensitive child.’
‘I promise to take care of
Xiaoting,’ he said, thinking that was what the discussion was about.
Guohao shook his head the younger man did not understand what he was getting at.
‘There are some things that
although we wish for it to go well, in reality we do not have the ability to
make it so.’
Zhengqing frowned in puzzlement, was he implying
that he and Yin Ting’s love would not last long?
But Guohao continued, ‘When
Xiaoting was little, her dream was to be a traveller. I asked why a traveller?
She said she wanted to go to many places that people did not have the
opportunity to go to, and record it to tell them. At that time, her mother and
I smiled. We said, to go to all these places need a lot of money, ah. Mother
and Father have to make a lot of money for you do to this. She smiled and said
when she grew up, she will also make money.’ (Zuben: Ah… childish dreams. I
wanted to be an opera singer and a ballerina and so on and so on)
Zhengqing did not interrupt him.
Xiaoting had not become a traveller; was this because her mother died?
‘But her mother left us. Xiaoting
did not become a traveller. Though, she is not without money, she would not go,
she wants to accompany this strange old man. She often travels with her
friends, but her trips are very short, maybe two-three times a year. Instead,
she comes with me to the printing factory where no other young girls are. The
youngest woman is thirty nine. But Xiaoting gets along with everyone.’
‘She is an angel,’ Zhengqing could
not help but say.
‘Yes,’ Guohao nodded and was silent
for a while.
‘Last year, or should I say the
year before last, I told her to do what she liked. Live the life she wanted,
but she said, she wanted just to live happily. I asked if she didn’t want to be
a traveller anymore. She said not to worry about it, she did not have to go far
to see the beauty of the world. As she grew up she realised that her childhood
dreams were too narrow, one does not need to travel far to see beauty, there
was was beauty close to one’s home. To have is beautiful. She still has a
father and a brother to cherish. She said she was still a traveller, and she is
sharing the beauty she has found with you. She did not lose her dream; she
works hard everyday for it. She believes she is still a traveller.’
Zhengqing thought of Yin Ting’s
blog; the foodie reviews, the weird chicken soup they shared. The pictures
roadside flowers, snails, clouds, even coffee…she saw beauty in everything and
wanted to share it with everyone. Zhengqing loved her for it and was proud of
her.
But Guohao continued, ‘When A-Shi
lost money in his business ventures, I knew about it, but he did not come to me because
of his pride. He didn’t let me help or give him advice. So I did not bother
with him. But Xiaoting took him in hand, and he finally gave up his pipe dreams
and opened the bar. It was what he’d always wanted to do but he thought I would
not be happy and thought he should do business. Truthfully, I do not care what
they do, as long as they are happy. That Xiaoting secretly invested in A-Shi’s
business I knew. Now, A-Shi’s business is doing well. Although the schedule is
not healthy, he is having a good time.’
Zhengqing’s heart grew heavy. He
thought he was beginning to understand what Guohao was getting to; he probably
wants to say that his son can do what he wants but his daughter can not. He
owes her her dream. But his daughter now has a boyfriend that was not the
travelling type, who could not accompany her, therefore, Guohao hoped he could
accommodate Yin Ting and do the things she liked to do. (Zuben: heh)
This must be the case, he thought.
He was going to put more effort into less overtime. Maybe go on holidays with
Yin Ting. Now that he had her, and he hoped to get married, he should adjust
his life.
However, Guohao did not give him a
chance, ‘Do not say you will change yourself, Zhengqing, such a thing is
useless.’
‘You and Yin Ting are clearly
different types of people. You lead different lives. I have been observing you
these past few days; you don’t like to travel, you don’t like going out, you
don’t pay attention to the food you eat, you have no interest in entertainment,
don’t like music. You only love work.’ (Zuben: A shame really.)
Zhengqing stiffened. What did he
mean? But as he tried to speak, Guohao waved him silent, ‘There is nothing
wrong in that. I don’t blame you. Everyone is different. That is normal.’
If it is normal, what was the
problem? Zhengqing thought.
‘But I believe that everyone should
be with someone similar to them. Someone who views life the same way as them,
and that way they could be happy together for a long time.’
‘Xiaoting and I are very happy
together.’ Zhengqing said. He deliberately said “he and Yin Ting”, rather than
“he was happy with Yin Ting” so that, he hoped, Guohao would understand that
the feeling of happiness was not only his, but Xiaoting’s as well. (Zuben: Rein
in your temper, Qingqing)
Guohao shook his head, ‘For now,
maybe. But in the long run, I don’t think you would.’ He said as he sipped his
tea.
‘You have a demanding job with a
lot of responsibility, but you find pleasure in that work. It makes you happy.
Xiaoting, like me, does not want to be chained to work. Although, she smiles a
lot on the outside, in her heart, there is fear. So she is trying to coax you
and teach you like a child. Didn’t you take leave of absence to be with her?
But isn’t this normal negotiations between two people who are newly in love?’
‘Certainly…’ Zhengqing replied, he
wanted to say more but Guohao cut him off and continued.
‘But that is not normal,’ Yin
Guohao said, ‘I told you earlier that I was observing you. But it wasn’t from
this holiday. You work overtime, regularly. Xiaoting came back home to eat a
few evenings, I asked her about you, she said though you had a date, you
cancelled your appointment with her. Your knowledge of tea is hard-edged; without
nuance. It is obvious you read it from a book. You learnt fishing. Your hiking
gear was all new. I know Xiaoting advised you about these things, and I am very
touched that you made the effort, but have you ever thought about what you
want? What you would like to do? Xiaoting can be overbearing when an idea takes
hold. But you are also a strong and a.s.sertive person. Overtime, her nature will
bother you. Now both of you are in love, but on your dates, you don’t go out.
You’ve never been to a movie together. Now she is not bothered by it, but over
time, do you think she would remain happy?’
Zhengqing’s lips thinned into a
grim line.
‘You did not do anything wrong, yet
you have to blame each other’s position’s in life. Even if you tolerate and do
not complain, your heart will acc.u.mulate grievances. You will think that you
are doing something good for your relationship. You are leader to hundreds of
people, so you must put in a lot of effort to gain the trust of the staff, meet
Old Qin’s expectations. But Xiaoting wants to live life, have someone who comes
home on time, will happily go with her on holiday, have the occasional
romantic entertainment. This is not wrong. This is what most families have.’
Guohao looked directly at Zhengqing
and said, ‘You are not suitable, Qiu Zhengqing.’
That single sentence dealt the
heaviest blow so far. Zhengqing’s heart pained him hearing that. (Zuben: Never
count your chickens before they hatch, m’dear) It was said with such fatherly
majesty.
‘You do not suit. You are a good
person. Xiaoting is also a good person. But you are not in each others
category. If you remain together for a lond time, you are bound to hurt one
another. I don’t want your goodness and hard work to be destroyed because of
love. You belong in the business world. Xiaoting needs to be free. I have been
an albatross on her neck, dragging her so she cannot walk freely, but this is
temporary, I will soon join my wife. But I do not want to leave my daughter in
the hands of a man who would tie her wings. I do not want my daughter to live
your life.’ (Zuben: Melodramatic much)
Anger boiled under the surface
threatening to spill. Zhengqing made a great effort to restrain himself. His
emotions were in turmoil, unease in his bones. But he knew that reacting this
way would not do, he must remain calm. He must attempt a negotiation. He counted to
ten, taking deep breaths with each count and then he said, ‘Xiaoting and I love
each other. In this world, there is nothing one cannot achieve without hard
work. Love is the same. But perhaps in the eyes of her father, no man deserves
his daughter.’
‘I am not talking about whether you
deserve her or not. It is a question of whether you are suitable for each
other. You are not for her and she is not for you. Right now, you get along,
you guys think that to love means to make self righteous sacrifice, but over
time, the love will melt away leaving grievances, you guys will end up blaming
each other and grow mutually resentful of each other. But by then, you will no
longer be young and love will not be the only thing that is lost. You will not
be able to turn back time. So it is better for me to be the bad guy, and stop
you here before you go any further.’
Zhengqing took a deep breath and counted to
twenty, before he said, ‘What kind of man do you believe is suitable for
Xiaoting? One who doesn’t work, and can accompany her to play, make chicken
dumpling soup? A man who can sing, loves to travel, has time and money to
squander like Yin Ting?’
‘No’ Guohao said in an even tone,
‘as before your thinking is too extreme. The responsibility you bear is heavy.
I would prefer a man who doesn’t have such pressure on him, does not need the
challenge of climbing up the career ladder. Someone who has the same interests
as Xiaoting; photography, food, travel…there are many professional men who have
a good work-life balance. I don’t want my daughter to be with a workaholic. Do
you understand?’
Zhengqing did not reply. He was
busy trying to calm his head.
But Guohao was not finished,
(Zuben: While I agree with a lot of his points, he is too long winded, aish)
‘You and Xiaoting are two extremes.
One with an extreme love of work; the pursuit of achievements is tied to your
self worth. The other extremely free and playful, and gets happiness from
sharing happiness with others. Of course, that is not good either, but this has
become a habit of our family and I am selfish, I hope that she remains this
carefree and spends lots of time with me. I don’t think you ever took a holiday
while you were in university. You hadn’t even gotten your degree before you
started working, had you? But Xiaoting, I tell you, had never worked a day
seriously in her life. Can you not see the big difference between you?’
Zhengqing finished his meditation
and asked, ‘What is the purpose of this discussion then?’
‘I asked you not to tell Xiaoting
about this meeting it was not to be kind. I will be speaking about it with her
when I get home. I asked you not to tell her because, I don’t want her to
interfere so we can talk calmly and rationally. Yin Ting is very emotional, but
you are a very logical person. So I thought if I put an a.n.a.lysis before you,
you would put aside your feelings and view things logically, and have a good
think about what I have said. Perhaps you are already aware of how unsuited you
two are, but your emotions are getting in the way of your better judgement
therefore you are reluctant to break up. But I will be the bad guy and I have
given you a few good reasons. The outcome I want is for you to break up with Xiaoting.’
‘And if not?’
‘I will have to insist.’ Guohao
replied calmly but coldly.
Zhengqing leaned back and lifted
his gaze to meet Guohao’s directly, ‘Then I am sorry, I would have to insist,’
then he added steel and frost to his tone, ‘that I am not breaking up with
Xiaoting.’ (Zuben: Go Qingqing!)
Chapter 58 Suitable
Guohao gave a smile that did not
reach his eyes, ‘You should think about your answer more, although I do not
care about what you say, but to be kind to you, I want you to be at ease and
not create uneccessary stress for yourself.’
Zhengqing gave a smile that
mirrored Guohao’s, ‘I finally understand why people have said Uncle is a strong
business man, a brother who people still come to for advice. Thank you Uncle,
but I do not feel pressured. You are against us being together, I have nothing
to bargain with, what pressure do I have? If you had said you were happy to
hand your daughter over to me, then I would have felt pressured because I would
have tried to live up to your expectations, but now there is little need. You
have left no room for us. Therefore, I
will calmly and respectfully tell you, I will not give up Xiaoting. I will not
break up with her.’
Guohao narrowed his eyes at
Zhengqing, but did not show his anger, ‘So do you think the problems I have
highlighted do not exist.’
‘They do.’ Zhengqing admitted,
‘When you spoke, you almost convinced me that Xiaoting and I would not work.
You are right, Xiaoting and I are completely different, but I have always known
this and so had Xiaoting, but we are in love. There will be problems, but
we would focus on solving this hypothetical trauma. Why should we hurt
ourselves because a situation that is only a possibility? If we all shrink away
and run at the sight of danger or hurt, then what hope do we have in life?’
‘But if you know you will come to
harm when you jump into fire, why jump?’ Guohao asked.
He was silent for a moment, then
asked, ‘Why are you so sure we would jump?’
‘You’re going to keep dating her,
aren’t you? The longer you get along, the longer you love, the more complex
this relationship gets, the more stress you will put on your psyche. And before
you know it, you’re standing between the knives and the fire. One way you will
bleed the other way you burn. You haven’t reached that point, isn’t it the best
time to withdraw? You will meet a more suitable woman for you, and Xiaoting
will meet a man the suits her. Why don’t you give yourselves a chance?’
(Zuben: While as you know I have
always felt their approach to their relationship was naïve, Daddykins is also
talking in the same extremes as he accused the couple of doing)
Zhengqing did not attempt to reply.
‘Zhengqing, you’re a successful
man. You need a woman who would be willing to wait for you at home, a woman who
would look after your family while to run your business. You are not able to
give up your achievements for a woman, and you have a more successful future
ahead of you. Xiaoting should not have to give up her life for a man. As her
father, I can only think of her.’
Zhengqing chose to reply, ‘I know you are good to her, and
she loves you very much. That is why I am still here. Though you say what you
think is the truth, but your truth has preconceptions. You preconception is
that Yin Ting and I have our own status quo and our relationship will destroy
it, and we will suffer and break each others hearts.’ (Zuben: All very
melodramatic)
‘But you feel this premise is irrevocable,
and our relationship will end in the demise you a.s.sume.’
‘Wouldn’t it?’ Guohao asked.
‘Who can say? Many channels do not
mean a large volume of sales. Few channels do not represent inevitable loss. It
may be more costly to sell than destroy. Products and pathways are really
important determinants in the success of a business, but marketing is also key.
You and I have been talking for almost…’he paused to look at his watch, ‘an
hour and half. I have confirmed that I like Xiaoting and decided to date her to
the best of my ability. I know we aren’t compatible on paper. I also thought
about it when I realised I liked her. I asked myself “Is this right?”, my
instinct said “Yes, it’s her.” ‘
‘For me to have taken a step
towards her there was a process. It wasn’t something I decided on a spur of the
moment, it wasn’t an impulse. If I had changed my mind or was shaken by a one
and half hour conversation, would I not be betraying my trust in my instincts?’
Guohao leaned back in his chair and
did not reply.
Zhengqing continued ‘Therefore, I
cannot give up on Xiaoting because of your a.s.sumptions. It is not fair to me,
or to Xiaoting. When I decided to pursue her, I did with marriage as the goal.
I want to marry, I don’t want to play love games. Xiaoting was not the type of
woman I initially set out to marry. Before I met Xiaoting, I had no concept of
love, only cold cut evaluations.’
‘Xiaoting is my first love. I am
really lucky to have met someone like her. I am lucky that the woman I want to
marry is someone I love, and she loves me too. We are trying our hardest to
adapt to each other. But in your opinion, that effort will lead to grief.
But I think that, after getting through this hard process, we can find the best
way to live and take care of each other’s needs.’
‘That is easy to say.’ Guohao said.
‘Yes, but so is breaking up based
on just a few words. It’s all easy to say, one would break up now and there
will be a period of heartbreak. It’s easy to say that I will find someone more
suitable for me and the next man that Xiaoting meets would be more suitable.
It’s also easy to say.’
‘So, what is your point?’ Guohao
said with his eyebrows raised.
‘But I will not bid her goodbye
because of your advice. You say as time goes by the emotions will become
complicated with responsibilities, stress and so on. On the other hand, if
there is no sense of responsibility, no pressure, can feelings last a long
tine? A relationship is responsibility based on love. An employee who does not
have a sense of belonging to the company but just wants to get paid will not
last long.’
‘Also, if you break up easily,’ he
continued, ‘letting these feelings go and jumping to the next paragraph, the next
one would not necessarily be better. It would be impossible for a long time
because, you have pinned your hopes on an unknown future and not cherished what
you had at the time.’
‘If I can treat the feelings of the person I am with with nonchalance and disrespect, I would treat the next person the same. So I do not believe the solution which
you put forward is necessarily good. Naturally, you do not care about me,
but is this how you want Xiaoting to be treated?’
But Guohao counter-attacked (Zuben
¬.¬), ‘You say my solution is not good, then what is your solution? Do not tell me you have love, I do not want to
repeat my truth. You know what I have said is justified.’
Zhengqing regarded his comment
silently for a minute or so, then said, ‘The problems you mention do exist,
Xiaoting and I have a lot of adjusting to each other to do…’ he did not know
where to go from there. How was a life without grievance possible? But in the
end, whether they work out or not depends on their love for each other.
Zhengqing shook his head, the older man had made up his mind, there was no way
to convinve him otherwise. He will become an obstacle between himself and Yin
Ting. But Yin Ting loved her father, without her father’s support and
blessings, how would she be happy?
‘I cannot think of anyway to
convinve you right now. But it doesn’t matter to you, does it?’
‘No it does not. I have lived a
long time and I have watched people in this world,’
Zhengqing said nothing. Yin Guohao
believed things would happen as he predicted.
‘I will not break up with
Xiaoting,’ he said finally, ‘it would be irresponsible and will be against my wishes.
But I thank you for reminding me of the problems that could arise between Yin
Ting and I may be bigger than what we feel. I will think it over, and deal with it
harmoniously. I hope that one day we can get your approval and blessings.’
Guohao shook his head, ‘You are
talking like a business man, how can I be confident?’
‘Whatever I do or say today, will
not fill Uncle with confidence.’ Zhengqing replied blandly
Tension filled the s.p.a.ce as the two
men stared at each other. Guohao’s expression was sharp and imposing, but
Zhengqing did not back down. (Zuben: Staring contest! Very shounen manga)
After what felt like a long while,
Guohao nodded and asked, ‘So I can’t persuade you?’
‘No.’
‘Then I will have to persuade
Xiaoting.’
‘That is to be expected. I should thank Uncle for his
respect.’ Zhengqing said with a smile.
Guohao returned his smile, ‘I may
be a stubborn old man, but I am not unreasonable. I said I appreciate you, and
that is the truth.’
Zhengqing smiled.
‘But I think you are unsuitable for
Xiaoting. I will resolutely object to you being together.’
Zhengqing wanted to laugh, but held
back and said, ‘I hope I will be able to prove Uncle wrong.’
‘Will you sacrifice yourself or
her?’
Zhengqing did not reply; it was not
a matter of sacrifice. He would not be the man Guohao expected him to be. And
he would not sacrifice Xiaoting, he didn’t want her to become another person.
But if no one sacrifices, how did one accommodate? (Zuben: Compromise?)
The psychological effect of
Guohao’s a.n.a.lysis was really a headache.
‘Are you going to speak to Yin Ting
tonight?’
‘Yes, I will speak to her when I
get home.’
‘Then I should tell you, I will
call her and explain what has happened and my stance on the matter.’ He said
calmly.
‘I can’t stop you.’
‘If Yin Ting gets emotional, do not
be hard on her.’
‘I am her father; I know how to
treat my own daughter.’
‘Because you are her father, I
don’t think you can remain as cool as you are in a showdown with a
stranger.’
Guohao did not say anything, but
called for the cheque.
The two walked to the exit. They
waited as Guohao’s driver when to bring his car around. They stood in silence
deep in thought. When Guohao’s car came up, the older man turned to Zhengqing, ‘You
do not understand, this is a checkmate with no solution. I do not think it
would be easy for you to accept such a thing over a conversation that lasted
an hour and a half. But when you think more about it, you will understand.’
‘I understand,’ he replied lightly,
‘I just don’t agree with your conclusion. I do not believe this a stalemate.’
Guohao moved forward and opened his
car door, before he entered, ‘And if Xiaoting agrees with me and wants to break
up?’
Zhengqing’s expression grew
serious, ‘I will tell her that I do not agree.’
Guohao gave him a final look, then
got in his car and drove away.
Zhengqing walked to his car, he got
in, took a deep breath and called Yin Ting.
Zuben: What a tedious pair of
chapters. Apologies for the typos. I have read through it, but I'm sure there are hidden ones lurking about.
Also, despite my eye rolling, I do enjoy doing this but if someone out there thinks they want to take over the translation, so that the story can be enjoyed without my 'stage whispers', please feel free to let me know.
Index ❋ Chapters 59 and 60